You must be in shape and look like you go to the gym. That means you need to have a six pack, not a keg. Part of the fetish is the other man being better looking, taller, fitter, more successful, etc. Think alpha male. Please, no one old enough to be my father, no teenagers/newbies, and absolutely no married men. Also, if you don’t actually intend on meeting up don’t bother messaging me. Seriously.